Friday, October 7, 2011

My grandfather, James Herbert White, was the Founder and First President of Mississippi Valley State University he kept the family constantly involved with the activities that went with having an educational institution.  As a son and grandson, you would do as you were told to do.  It was easy, because my older brother and I did care and we didn’t want to disappoint.  Not saying that I didn’t make mistakes, but it is a testament to choosing to do what was expected of me.


It’s been a while since I have had to be in a meeting setting now that I am retired from the Houston county board of education.  I just wanted to teach/coach to the best of my ability.   Meetings . . . well.

Yesterday, I joined my wife at a networking luncheon meeting.  She said “you should meet the people I network with because I have told them about you and the ZUMBA party that’s coming up.”  Did I mention that I’m a coach?  So I pulled out all the things mama use to say when we attended events on the campus of Mississippi Valley State University.   I did go and enjoyed meeting some new people and even saw some familiar faces there.  Glad that I went. 

The segment for announcements, near the end of the lunch, my wife introduced me to the group.  Before I began to tell them the abbreviated story of my transplant and about the Anniversary ZUMBA Fitness & Health Fair on October 22, 2011, a former student, Courtney, stood and reminded me of why I did what I did for 32 years.  It made me feel real good and after I got myself together I started to try to talk.  Because I do care, "Chip'n Away at Heart Disease" is my passion and I am writing a book that will tell someone of preventive measures so they don't have to go through what I did.
  
I still remember many of the faces of former students (male/female) their hobbies, jersey numbers, character traits, funny stories and nicknames I might have given them.   When I see them, I will ask them about siblings or if they have followed their dreams.  I do that because I care.

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Learning Lessons

Note to self:  * God hears prayers. We are never too old to listen to someone and to learn. * My advice to you is to enjoy your parents.  Get out there and enjoy life.   *  Meet someone new Take a chance on the good. Get some exercise.  Don't worry about the wrong things.  Know the difference in a hug and an embrace - practice often.  Remember to have good belly laughs.  Tell her how sexy she is until she gives you a strange look.   

This Time Last Year

Recently, I participated in a diabetes awareness fundraiser as well as the American Heart Association-Heart Walk.  This time last year, I couldn't walk across the room unassisted.  As a matter of fact, hospital records show the poor function of my heart and the life threatening condition I was in due to heart disease.


I would reminisce about helping my daughter to move into her first ever apartment since college after accepting a new job.  This had been a  missed opportunity because that was the initial hospitalization for me (June, 2010.)  I couldn't lift my head up, much less carry a box or move furniture.  I was weak, swollen and very fatigued.


October 3rd of last year, I was fighting for my life in an Atlanta hospital.  This past weekend (October 3, 2011), I was keenly aware that "today I'm eleven months old" I told my wife. We were then standing in my daughter's new apartment watching her interact with the movers and make decisions about redecorating to make this location better than the other one.  I thank God that both of us are able. . . you know what I mean?